Kim over at
Mom Tried It is hosting a blog hop today to help spread the word to all women that
WE ARE BEAUTIFUL!
So many people have such a negative self image. I struggle with this myself. I have many things about my body that I am unhappy with. I used to be pretty athletic, but being pregnant with or nursing a baby for all but 5 months of the past 5 1/2 years has taken a toll on this poor body of mine.
I am not as brave as Kim to take a picture in my swimsuit, but there are two body parts in particular that are not my favorite, but they are a part of me, so they are beautiful.
While I was pregnant with my first child, I never ended up with any stretch marks or anything. While I was pregnant with my second and third my legs began hurting and I sat helpless as spider and varicose veins spread across both my legs. I wore prescription strength support stocking to help cut down on the pain a little, but they weren't all that helpful (plus, imagine being 8-9 months pregnant and bending and trying to tug on the tightest pantyhose imaginable!). Anyway, after the girls were born the pain of the varicose veins did subside (thank goodness!) but the veins are still there sticking out and spreading across my legs. Not the most attractive things in the world, but really, whenever I look at them I think about being pregnant with the girls and how lucky I am to have such beautiful, healthy little children in my life!
(Sorry, I couldn't get a better picture, they run all down my leg and all around the arch on my foot.)
The second is a birthmark I have on my face. Honestly, it used to bother me A LOT! When I was a teenager we even tried to have it lasered off. But after a couple very painful laser treatments, it did fade a little, but is still there. A hard thing for a teenager, but I am a grown woman now, and who really cares if I had a little pinkish splotch on my cheek. I used to always wear my hair down and part it so the hair could cover that side of my face. But now, almost every day my hair ends up in a ponytail. It is just a part of me and it is BEAUTIFUL!

I agree with Kim that we all need to start believing that we are beautiful, "imperfections" and all! We are the role models for our children. If we say negative things about ourselves, even if we don't think the children hear us, they do. I have two girls and I certainly don't want them to ever think they are not beautiful people! I want all three of my children to know what wonderful, beautiful little people they are.
As kind of a side note, while I was trying to think how I wanted to write this post I read some posts that were in my Google Reader, and saw Teach Mama's post for today:
Quick trick: the power of positive talk. Go on over and read it. Just a great reminder that not only do we need to speak/think more positively about ourselves, but of course about our children. If they hear you say negative things about them, they may just live up to those thoughts. But think what could happen if you praise them for their accomplishments, all they do, and just for being their wonderful selves. They will take all that praise in, feel so good about themselves, and want to live up to those expectations you have for them. So seriously, go on over to
Teach Mama to read some tips on how we can help speak more positively to our children as well!
